Masturbation and Voyeurism

Everyone loves to masturbate at some point in their lives, most of us like to do it in private, while those more adventurous like to do it with others present or each other, sometimes in public spaces or even recording themselves in the act of masturbation and upload it to the internet for all to see.

Now I love sex and can't get enough to satisfy my desires but there are times when I like to masturbate instead. I'd like nothing more than some horny chick bouncing up and down on my cock until I cum but hey I can dream...

So what is it about watching other people masturbate that hold such fascination for people? I think there is something that appeals to our sense of voyeurism when we are watching others engaged in sexual acts. There is something illicit about it, like it's wrong for us to watch but we can't help ourselves and look away.

Sex has been around since life began, as without it there would be nothing. So you would think that there is nothing new to see here. However, it is not just the act of masturbation that we want to see but the diversity of people that masturbate and how they travel their sensual journey to orgasmic climax that really excites us.

Do you remember the first time you watched some porn or someone masturbating? Can you remember how it made you feel? Did you start touching yourself in those places and experienced the feelings that were running through your body. Remember how stiff and hard your cock/nipples became when you stroked them, or how moist and slippery your pussy felt as your fingers glided over your skin. Remember the wetness deep inside you as you became more aroused... Are you getting excited just reading this..? Go on, you know you want to...

Masturbation is the great social leveller, whether you are rich or poor, male or female, gay or straight, catholic, protestant or atheist we are all the same. It is all about people engaging with their primitive desires. Watching someone masturbate is like seeing the real person, stripped of all pretensions and laid bare for all to see engaged in their most private intimate moments while we watch their fingers probe and caress their bodies into a state of sexual arousal slowly building up to an explosive climax. We cannot help ourselves but come along for the ride.


Posting online videos of ourselves masturbating is an extension of the act of voyeurism in that we are encouraging others to look at us and what we're doing. The difference is we know that you are watching us and the thought of it heightens the thrill we experience when people comment on what we are doing and what they would like to do to us.

So are you getting excited now? Come and watch me cum!

Altered Perceptions

When I first decided to create this blog I was looking for a suitable picture that embodied what this site was all about, sex, masturbation and climax. I had a mental image of the kind of picture I was looking for. Being male I was looking for an image of a nude male that depicted the sensual side of the male psyche.


Now I have an open and healthy attitude to sex and other people’s sexuality, I’m not gay myself but I have known/worked with people who were either gay /lesbian and have never felt like my masculinity was being threatened.


Eventually I did find the image I was looking for, it was more in the vein of artistic nudes and I adopted this image of a nude male in a reclining pose as it had the qualities and depth of tone I was looking for. But all this got me thinking about the other images I saw of nude males and how it made me feel.


I’ll be quite honest, I can look at either of these photographs and admire them for what they are, two lovely women in the midst of an orgasmic climax.

However, when I look at this picture the only thoughts that entered my mind was of it as being tasteless, crass and demeaning towards us men.

It’s quite amusing that a man can look at an image ofa gay man and feel that they have been demeaned. One up for the feminists I say!


The question in my mind was that given the common factors between these images being that both of them depicted male and females either naked or performing some sexual act. I could look at the pictures of females and feel quite alright about it, as well as looking at male nudes and males engaged in masturbation. But as soon as I looked at the pictures of males engaged in sexual activity I felt uncomfortable.


I concluded that it was not the images that made me uncomfortable but my perceptions of the images and what they depicted as I viewed them. Ultimately I believe it comes down to the human mind and how it interprets and perceives the images. I have a theory that the minds of men and women are "wired" differently at a low level in such a way that they can both look at the same thing and yet see different things.


Put simply straight guys can’t look at images of gay sex without feeling uncomfortable. Whereas gays & lesbians see their equivalent of normal male heterosexual pornography.